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Big win!! Had my first 1 on 1 session with Cam last Tuesday. Tuesday night, I had a big wonderful win with my wife. It was a load off my shoulders, and reiterated that what was going through my head(thoughts of failure) during intimate times with my wife was just that....thoughts and fear. I have been able to reconnect emotionally and intimately with my wife and I am positive the wins will continue. Had my 2nd 1 on 1 session today, and it re-enforces my confidence. I look forward to our next session. Stay positive!

WIN I had successful sex on Saturday just want to say thank you to this community and Cam for his material and the way he explains things. My erection was just different lol maan i dont know 😂. Would like to speak about on the call today.

I just have finished in a condom inside a girl for the second time in my life A girl came to my flat today and we tried something right after my work, but I couldn't get harder than like 60%. So i decided to take a pill. Now I think that I just had my head still at work, the work laptop was still open, so that could be the issue. The second try (only 15 mins later) was way better, I don't know what helped the most: • a bit of caffeine (has anyone noticed it's impact on performance?) • the pill • the right chilled mindset I don't know if sex on the pill is cheating or not regarding the wins section, but I've only achieved that once before so I'm happy.

Big Win After my session with Cam on the group calls we spoke about the anxiety around performance and erections. As soon as I stopped worrying about the problem I started getting random erections in the day when thinking about sexual thoughts. Previously this was not happening I was stuck in ruminating about erections and nothing was happening. This is a first step towards my healing, and we agreed I should slowly take it further with a woman.

Success Had some success tonight. Not perfect but successful.

Small win, first of many Hi, I discovered this course about a week ago, it is very informative. Also I managed to have a 1 on 1 call with Cam which gave me some confidence and lowered my anxiety during the day. The day after i had noticable progress in bedroom, with less worries and better sensations. Thanks for sharing your knowledge Cam.

Finally I’m succeeding Since joining this group, I made a commitment to stop relying on pills. I realized that as long as I leaned on them, I wasn’t truly giving myself a chance to improve. My wife and I decided to face this challenge together, head-on. We agreed to make intimacy a regular part of our lives again—not just when everything felt “perfect,” but as a consistent, shared effort. For the past few weeks, we’ve been trying to be intimate every night. Some nights are easier than others, but we go into it with the mindset that it’s okay to struggle. We’re treating it like a learning experience—a kind of “sexy class” where each night is a lesson, not a test. This shift in mindset has taken a lot of pressure off me. The results have been surprisingly positive. I’ve been getting erections every time, and most nights, I’m able to penetrate successfully. My erections are harder, and the whole process feels more natural. I think my body and mind are adjusting to the idea that this is a normal, regular part of life—not a rare event. There are still challenging moments, especially with positions where I need to take the lead. But my wife has been incredibly supportive, encouraging me to face those challenges instead of avoiding them. Her patience and partnership have made a huge difference. I also believe that quitting porn last year has played a significant role in my progress. I have been watching porn consistently since 14 and I am 38. I no longer even have urges. If you need help, I have a resource that worked for me.

Success! Hi guys! Just wanted to let everyone know I had a great win on saturday night. I had sex with my girlfriend, not penetrative this time only because she could not (woman problem), but oral and manual. I am proud to say I was hard as hell this time and here are my observations : • I did not plan for it, I only took the time to be with her during the day and focused on good quality time. • I took the time during dinner to just Connect with her, just deep talk about life, listening to her carefully and being in a state of sharing. • I realised I was fully present in the moment • It made me feel safe • We laughed a bit and I realised I had no expectations. I felt so safe I knew I did not care if we had sex or not and if we did, I did not care if it would work or not. So, I just wanted to share my observations as I thought it went in the same direction as some of the things Cam explained in his most recent videos. Being present, feeling secure, working on connexion. It really does make a difference. Does that mean I am healed? No, I know I am not yet and I am fine with that. I know I am on the right path and just this, makes a world of difference. Hope that post brings some hope! ;)

Light at the end of the tunnel I have been suffering from performance anxiety for the last 9 months, it's been really tough and hard. Everytime I'm alone with my wife, even in non sexual situations, whether it's in the car, bedroom, kitchen, backyard, I can feel the tension in my body, the nervousness, heart pounding, the anxiety itself. It was painful, I spiraled a lot in the first few weeks, months. I felt broken, there were days where the anxieties hits me so hard even when I'm alone. I felt hopeless, I spent most of my time finding the right answers and solutions. I tried psychotherapy, sex therapy, hypnotherapy, psychosexual alignment, meditation, Ho'oponopono, RTT therapy, you name it as I was desperate to fix my condition. My mindset changed, helped me clear some thoughts but nothing was working physically, my body would still shut down during sexual encounters. I was frustrated, angry and helpless. Every time I fail, I pick myself back up, not allowing myself to lose no matter how painful it is. Until the recent video Cam uploaded, it was a game changer! Everything he said just clicked! When we focus too much on erections and arousal, we forget what the underlying problem really is which is our body's safety and emotional connection to our partners. Our bodies are not betraying us, it needs safety! We need intimacy over sex, safety over arousal. In just 2 days from watching the video, all made sense to me, I realized I was beating myself up for the wrong reasons. After months of suffering, I finally had one of the BEST SEX with my wife! The feeling is surreal. Everything went perfectly. This is the start of something positive! Here's Cam's youtube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUSkKUHqq3Q For all you guys out there, keep your head up! We all know it's easier said than done but none of us are broken. Healing is a process but it's CERTAIN, I can guarantee you that! Don't doubt yourself, believe in yourself! Cam has been a blessing in our journeys, I'm pretty sure I will move past this sooner than expected and I know you will do too! Be strong, you're a warrior! -Ken

Update on wins and failures Hi guys! Been quiet for a while as I was busy last month. So, I wanna write an update on my recent experiences. I was able to get two full blowjobs recently and i was able to stay hard despite being a bit nervous. I was even able to have sex by penetration once with my girlfriend, but i came really really quick... I have much more control with handjobs and blowjobs. However, I had a failure recently where I was a bit hard during foreplay but not rock hard and when my GF decided to go down, I slowly became softer and softer as I was suddenly nervous about not being hard enough and being embarrassed. I got in fight or flight mode and that was it, a failure. So now, I am anticipating the next few times because I dont wanna go a down spiral. What can I do to bounce back after a failure and make sure I dont make a big deal out of it since I know everything was fine for a Little while? It is like I wanna prove her next times will be ok but that puts me in performance mode. :(

@Cam_Joyner thank you so much. You are incredible. All of that makes absolute sense! I even had a quick win on friday night. We had little time so we just went for a quickie and because I knew it was no big deal and we had no time for a long intercourse, it kinda brought the pressure down and I was able to have sex successfully! I was not 100% hard though and I realize that when am a bit soft i tend to get in my head and ask myself why. It is weird, I feel excited but I see my Dick is not engorged as it should with my desire so triggers fight or flight mode.

Hey Cam, thought I'd give you an update on how things have been going. I've gotten off those SSRI meds and have completely removed those side effects from my life. I don't think they did anything positive for me at all in the end. I wanted to let you know that I'm in a much better place with all things ED and mental struggling. I've been having good sex lately without the need for any ED drugs and have found myself to be able to perform adequately, which has been so relieving. My girlfriend has obviously played a huge role in this, and I really think we are so much closer because of it. What I'm basically saying is that I believe I'm "cured" of this horrible shit or at the very least totally immune to the huge mental suffering it used to cause me. I don't expect to find myself in that horrible state of mind again, and I really feel like some sort of anxious weight has been lifted off of me for good. Again a lot of this has to do with my girlfriend and the longevity of our relationship, but I'm writing to you to also say that you have played a large role in this as well. I'm so grateful that I came across your videos, reached out to you, and even met you in person. This was such a learning experience for me and the content you put out was a big help in me moving forward. I really think this is an underserved area of life for men and you're doing a great service in work. I have a friend who confided the same stuff in me recently, and I pointed him towards your YouTube page. It's been eye opening to how many men experience this stuff and how awful it feels to go through it. I feel really grateful to find myself in a better place with how dark and consuming it got for me. Anyway, I just wanted to update you and say thanks. I'm glad I got to meet you and work with you. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Anonymous

I 100% recommend Cam's course if you experience problems stemming from over-masturbation or porn addiction. It will help in all areas of your life, not just regaining your ability to have sex. Before working with Cam, my life was dull and dreary. Erectile dysfunction had taken a toll that I hadn’t yet realized. I knew deep inside that my porn addiction was extinguishing the flame my life was lacking. I had a failed sexual experience with a girl, and I got so fed up with myself that I decided to seek help. Life is not worth living if you can’t have sex. Curing ED can take a long time, but my life will be forever changed thanks to Cam and his words of wisdom. When starting this journey on the road to recovery, he’s definitely someone you want on your side. I would not be where I am today without his help. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - H. Himes

Desperate for answers, I came across a guy named Cam from Vermont. Cam essentially changed my life forever. He’s a person who has dealt with this problem, on top of many other major problems, and overcame it. Finally a person who can recognize and relate to this horrific misfortune. His astute perspective on relationships and life in general has been the best therapy I’ve ever had. If you would’ve told me five years ago that I’d be in a relationship with my dream girl, I would have not believed it in any sense and I would’ve thought it’s too good to be true. Any average guy can tell you how difficult it is getting two dates with a woman, let alone getting a girlfriend out of the situation; now add this ED problem on top of that, and it’s nearly impossible. Thanks to Cam’s knowledge on this issue, I found out it’s not impossible. I can almost consistently (and I say almost because this is a slow mental healing process and I am almost where I want to be) satisfy my current partner with my penis being fully erect the entire time. It’s a miracle. All my life’s problems aren’t solved but the fact that this problem is slowly becoming less of a depressing burden on me makes life worth living again. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Donnie

Until recently, I didn't really believe that I had emotions. That may sound ridiculous to some people, but until I experienced debilitating ED, I didn't appreciate just how much I had been burying my emotions and feelings for my entire life. Learning to experience my emotions has been an eye-opening and humbling experience. I still struggle with feeling my emotions and expressing them, but I have started to take steps in the right direction. Unfortunately, I have still not overcome my ED completely. It has improved a lot, however. If I am being completely honest, I have to admit that there is still a large emotional aspect of my life that remains unresolved. I have no doubt whatsoever that this prevents me from being completely free of ED. That being said, I am spending far more time in my life simply enjoying the moment rather than constantly worrying about my ED. I am frequently able to have better, pill-free sex with my partner. I definitely see the light at the end of the tunnel. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Jeremy

Before your course I've tried so many things, some helpful and some just set me back. The difference was truly understanding that this problem was directly related to my thoughts. All the "cures" I had been looking into primarily dealt with physical issues, which gave me hope but eventually faded. I still deal with some doubtful or negative thoughts, but I'm so much better equipped to deal with them when they pop up now. Finally having my anxiety in check has allowed me to progressively become more confident, and I feel like the few issues I still have will eventually be completely gone. Just knowing I wasn't alone and having someone who has overcome this issue tell me it wasn't a physical problem and I will be able to get back to normal was huge, and that's what your course did for me, and that's what I'd tell anyone who is struggling with this problem. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Arthur

ED has been one of the most challenging experiences of my life. When my problems started, I experienced less pleasure during sex with another person, and as the problem progressed I even began to have problems during masturbation. The problem has consumed every aspect of my life. I have felt completely broken. At my lowest, I have felt anxiety and depression to such a degree that I thought I had some sort of terrible physical sickness. ED can be a very tough problem because it has the ability to completely destroy self-esteem, which can, quite literally, change the course of one's life. I thought it was a very strong possibility that I would have to live with ED for the rest of my life. After trying what seemed like every possible avenue to fix it, it had no more ideas and was losing hope. Luckily, it turns out that I hadn't actually tried every possible avenue. I always dismissed the possibility that my problem was related to anxiety. In retrospect, the fact that anxiety was the problem is painfully obvious. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Brendon

Hey Cam, just wanted to give you an update. It has been going absolutely great so far. It has just been a month since I started your course, and my anxiety is reducing greatly on a day to day basis. I hardly have any issues now during masturbation, and almost never lose my erections because I'm not worried about losing them. I'm probably enjoying it even more than I used to before ED. And before your course, I was masturbating 2 to 3 times a day and now it only happens like once in a week, and is a lot more enjoyable. Watching porn is happening very rarely, like just 2 to 3 times a month and is having no negative impact on my life. I'm living a very happy life, Cam. And I hope to just keep improving on a daily basis. Thanks for giving me and many others their lives back. I have seen such amazing results in just a month, so I wonder how happier would I be in a couple of months time. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Farrukh

Hey Cam, just wanted to start out by letting you know that listening to your course has helped me immensely. I no longer feel like I have ED, especially from any physical cause, and my struggles in the bedroom are now few and far. Again, I can't thank you enough, and if I encounter anyone struggling with this issue, or if I feel I could use a refresher, I will surely contact you in the future. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Jake

Hey Cam, sorry for disturbing you a lot through my emails, even though you have already guided me that I need to just keep doing what I am doing and just carry my momentum forward as I have been doing with your course and that I don't have to let my mind search for things to worry about. And you know what, before I started working through your course, I used to ask God to please take my life away and now I am living a lot happier life and I hope to just increase the happiness and joy in life each day. Thank you so much. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ - Mohammed